Relationships

You can know exactly what you don't want—and still find yourself in the same kind of relationship. Maybe you've noticed a pattern. You keep ending up with emotionally unavailable partners. You find yourself doing most of the emotional work. You have difficulty asking for what you need. You ignore your own discomfort until resentment builds. You become anxious when someone pulls away. Or you keep choosing relationships that feel familiar—even when you know they aren't healthy